When Is Enough Enough?
Parts 1 & 2
We’ve all encountered couples for whom therapy is a last-ditch attempt before calling it quits. But how do we, as therapists, decide whether to throw our weight behind the relationship or let it end? This session explores the impact our own values, childhood experiences, and old family roles have on how we help couples answer this momentous question. Through case histories and discussion, you’ll focus on:
- How to quickly get to the heart of the matter and articulate the couple’s stuckness, then reawaken warmth and closeness, helping them remember love and back off the ledge if possible
- What to do when one partner is ambivalent about the relationship and clearly disengaged from therapy
- What to do when your own deal breakers, such as physical or psychological abuse, are part of the couple’s history
- How to proceed when addiction issues cloud the viability of the relationship’s future or when there’s been betrayal or infidelity
Continued with workshop 506
Terry Real, LICSW, is the author of the bestseller I Don’t Want to Talk About It: Overcoming the Secret Legacy of Male Depression and has been featured on numerous national news programs. He’s been in private practice for 30 years and is the founder of The Relational Life Institute, where he does therapist trainings and workshops for couples.