In this video clip from Symposium 2016, Susan Johnson, originator of Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), discusses “the dance of sex” and the importance of emotional presence, attunement, and sensitive responsiveness. The things that define bonding and good sex, she argues, are one in the same. Plus, in terms of teamwork, good sex is a little like a couple assembling a piece of Ikea furniture together, but a lot more fun!